as ur problem i feell ur family has just one problem simply it is lectue to other family members and wat u feel now u got change in urself?no it is just way of adjustment which u got to save urself fom a fight between u and ur parents may be this is right solution this time but its not good one solution u all members of family has to think about it why u give lectre to others too much every person hass differnt persanality and its IQ every perso has limits to understand things and to do worksmay be ur sister has less IQ and her personality is not developed much due to restrictions of ur family[parents]if life we do a number of works well and some time we cant to better as others like them but if we cant do then its meaning is nt we fight on every point get some pationce -ur sister fight on issues coz now she know better world which is start from boundrey of ur home,u all hv to listen her views think on them and then take decisions and give her some chances to domay be she do wrong some time but u hv to give her chances,also close ur lecutres on every topic or issue some time law of exercise is better then other -may be u all feel better-gud luck

Every human have different characters and attitude, some understand the reason easily, some don't.

I understand your position, as we have the same problem before, i have a pain in the *** brother. He is 24, and really annoying one. He makes a lot of mistakes when he is still in our family house, and my mother can't reason with him, thinking he knows what he is doing, full of pride, thinks he is always correct. Now he is married, he then realized his mistakes.

Is your sister have a lot of attention to the family? Because one of my brother's problem is lacking of attention, jealous of us, thinking we are the favorites, but in the reality, we are all equally loved by our parents.

If she doesn't listen to your mother's lecture, then so be it. Just make her understand her mistakes by herself.

I.. well we(my middle brother) doesn't talk to him because we know he will not listen even if we try.

There is a saying in my country, that "Regrets are always at the end" or "Regrets are felt when it's just too late".

That's all i can say, sorry, if my answer does not help you.

Sometimes if you lecture people more they tend to be worst. So I suggest that talk to your sister in a manner that she would understand. Maybe she is undergoing certain problems now that she's acting that way. My advice is try to understand her and connect with her, once you get the connection you can start to advice and tell her things she lacks.:) I hope this helps.

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i dont know wht i can say..u can spend sme time with ur sister nd teach him how to talk to other when u make mistake.nd how to feel sory nd patience when sme1 gives advice to u.

I was child when in my mistakes everyone give me lecture and i got angry. I did not except that i have maken the mistake. But as i grown up i starting understand why they give me lectures because of my future and they are right and now i except my mistake. Slowly i got more understood and now in age of 17 i am more mature that i satisfy everyone and sometimes i give lecture to their mistakes. i learnt how to hadle me and second person interaction.

But now problem is my sister. She is 23 but she didnt know anything. She make too much mistake. That creates many problem.

My mother daily give her lectures. She got angry and she didnt understand anything. She think that she is right.same behaviour of child of 8 in age of 23. Daily my mom and sister fights .it create lot of depression. I dont know how to handle 2nd and 3rd person interaction. Plz help plz help.