If you are the type of person to sit indoors and do nothing with your day, this will drive you crazy, and make you think whey too much, if you do activities and grow a hobby something he may have liked himself?
Of course you will miss him, but just think of all the good things about him, concentrate on what he would want you to do, move on and continue with your life, he will always be there.
First let me say I am very sorry about the death of your friend and I know from experience how difficult that can be. However, death is a part of human existence and although we do not know why a decent kind individual like that should pass away so soon the fact remains that it happens. There is no way to get over the loss of a loved one all that you can do is to continue to carry their memory with you. Do not see Jarred has gone see him as evolving into a better life, knowing that he his still around you are protecting you, listening to you and watching over you.
I do know that people believe that when you talk to a loved one who pass away you must be crazy, but I do talk to my love ones as if they are in the room with me and at time I know they are. The love that you shared with others do not die when they do.
Do not forget him, keep him always in your heart and I am sure he would be the first to say move on with your life I may not be there in the flesh but I am with you in spirit. Each day it will be a little easier for you and you will eventually find another who will be just like Jarred. I wish you all the best and keep the faith.
Hi Ayuki
Grief is as intense as the love you have for your friend. But grief does ease with the passage of time. One day you will be able to remember golden memories of your friend but now you are on a grieving pathway and are at the questioning stage.
Remember Jarred as a true and honest friend and give thanks for the memories.
Take care and best wishes.
Every one on these pages will offer you their condolences. What a pity we have to die.! Both my Mother and Father died of Cancer. All we have to console us, as well as kind thoughts of the departed is the knowledge that time really does heal.
First off I'm sorry for your loss truly, I've experienced quite a bit of loss myself & I know it's very difficult.
I like to believe they take the good ones because they run out of angels & to replenish the supply, good people have to die:(
It's very sad and upsetting when a close person dies, especially if they're young.
You just have to remind yourself of the good times you had and he will always be in your mind and heart...no one can take that away from you.
we all die, what made you think jarred would be immune to that condition.. best way to get over someones death is not to be soppy, but stoic.
Jarred was like a brother to me and probably the closest person to me ever. I could share anything and everything with him. Jarred died a while back from a Brain Tumour and recently it was brought up by my BF Because we were talking about how we met. Jarred went through a dangerous operation and didn't make it out... I don't understand why him of all people died? He was so kind and smart and well... I needed him in my life. :( Please, give me advice on what I can do to get over it too? Why did HE have to die!? :( ... I loved him like a brother. x
R.I.P. Jarred.<3333
