Just because I'm twisted... what I would do, going on the assumption that he obviously doesn't have much respect for you, he would fall into this trap.
I'd get one of those novelty scratch off tickets; one that when he scratches it, it says he wins like $200,000.. Tape record him reacting to it... and he calms a little bit, start talking about what you both will be doing with the money. At this point, because he's a cheater with no respect for you, he will start talking about how you and him need some time apart, etc. and how its "not working out" yada yada yada..
Then have him read the back that says he can claim the money from "YO MAMA'S HOUSE" haha. and have him on tape, and you'll always be reminded of how you probably were the only girl that taught him a lesson.
I ''had'' a husband who did similar things. He is disrespecting you, not to mention trying to cheat on you. I mean you can tell if he could he would. I left my husband... my only regret is that I didn't do it sooner than I did. Get rid of him. I would bet that you can do much better. Don't ever allow someone to treat you this way.
You are betrayed. Divorce and take him for everything you can get. Hang onto every scrap of paper to show the judge.
Even if she is on the other side of the world, your husband is guilty of "emotional cheating," and major disrespect for you.
Kick him to the curb NOW. You deserve better!!!
Start wearing stockings and suspenders.
Time to get yourself an ex-husband.
Kick him out & go find yourself someone better.
Get rid of him
shoot him
I have found some corresspondence that my husband has been sending to this woman in New Zealand I we are in Britain. my hubby used to live in NZ and him and this woman used to work toether and lived next door to each other. When i met him i did not mind him writing to her because she was a friend. Recently I found that she has been sending him photos of herself in stockings and suspenders and has promised him some pictures of parts of her body ( I will leave it to your imaginations as to where).
i kept this quiet for months waiting for new evidence, then I had an argument with him and he said that it was her that was after him. In his letters he was also very insulting toward me telling her that the only thing he would miss if i whent was the three piece suite and the furniture i take.
I tackled him and he said he would not write to her agian, there have been more letters since and in the last one she has written that she has sent him her stockings. he would not let me see the letter so I snatched it off him.
He then admitted that he is writing to her at work. I know she is on the other side of the world but I still feel betrayed. Any advice and opinions please.
