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A real loser is one with much who doesn't realize the value of it all.
First off You have to be comfortable with who are. Every Woman is not into looks. What counts is personality and belief and confidence. . They say women like confidence, well it is true. No you're not a loser. If a Girl can't accept you for who you are, then move on. Every Woman is not great looking. Lower your expectations and go after girls who are not so great looking. Most of the time they have great personalities unlike sometimes girls who are goregeous and full of themselves. Try to develop a friendship with women first. Don't focus on the sex. That will come in time. don't be a oversexed jerk who just wants to get in her pants. Women are human and not just sexual objects for your pleasure. When I was in Middle School , this girl said I was ugly. I'm a good looking guy. A littile on the short side but it is what it is. How one girl views you , in another girls eyes you could be handsome. Being Handsome comes in all forms. Not just looks. Look at rapper Biggie Smalls. Obviously he wasn't the best looking but he had charisma with the ladies . Look at Jay-Z he has a sexy lady in Beyonce . Have charisma and confidence. Learn to make women laugh.You focus on bettering your life and the women will come. Trust me goodlooking guys don't have it like that. You still have to work to get women. It's not easy whether you're goodlooking or not. Looks are overrated . Don't let no one bring you down. Good luck and remember to learn to love yourself . No one can love you until you learn to love yourself.
okay dude, I myself have low self esteem, but come on, you cant change your face. be happy with who you are! embrace your weirdness! if people call you ugly, tell them they can go to hell, because it looks like you've had a little bit too much suffering here. listen dude, it's okay to be a virgin. but it looks like youre seeking to have sex as quick as you can. find a girl you like, start being her friend, get to know her, if you spend enough time with her, she will fall for you dude I promise okay? i lost my virginity at 14 and it was the worst feeling ever because it wasn't special. make sure you love a person before you have sex. it makes it even better! i wish you the bestest of luck!!! please cheer up man! stay rad!!! <3
i'm 20 and i never had a girl. i have low self esteem. it all started back in 7th grade when a girl i knew said that all of the girls said i was ugly. that was on my mind for that entire day. my mom says i'm handsome but i just don't see what she sees. i wish i was the best looking guy on the planet. i hate how i look. i feel like crap. i'm a 20 year old virgin. everytime i see myself in the mirror, i try to block my face out because i hate it so much. i wish i was the guy who every girl wanted. i wish i was the guy who every girl was into. i wish i had a picture of myself. i hate how i look. if i had the power to change my face, i would in a heartbeat. i would make it so i was the best looking guy on earth. latley, i have been asking myself "why me"? one time in 8th grade, i liked this girl and she didn't like me. i don't think any girl was attracted to me in middle school or high school. what's wrong with me? when I see a girl and she is alone, what should I say to try and hook up with her. what should I do to start a conversation that can lead to sex?
